This one isn't about our relationship, but ones I've seen from time to time. I hate hearing about relationships in which someone has to choose between a friend and their girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse. Nobody has the right to put somebody in that situation (except maybe your parents; they always know what's best...ish). Sure, there may be that ONE person your significant other just cannot stand, but guess what? They don't have to be around them (by the way, I'm talking about the good influence, nice people kind of friends; not the people that use you and convince you to do bad things; you know you shouldn't hang around them anyways). Your friends keep you grounded and serve as the lended ear or shoulder to cry on when you need them most. They also keep you from killing your significant other when they leave the toilet seat up and you fall into the bowl in the middle of the night (yes, it's unfortunately happened to me). If someone's insecurities require you to end a healthy, needed relationship with someone you've known for a good amount of time, your choice should be an easy one.
PS ~ While we were dating, an ex of mine told me that I'd have to choose between him and Cole, who was just a friend at the time. We all see how that turned out =P
~ To Be Continued~
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